I've got all the steps to help you undo a bank reconciliation in QuickBooks Online (QBO), Ben.
You can only unreconcile a transaction one at a time. If you need to start over, I recommend contacting your accountant. They can undo the entire period at once using QuickBooks Online Accountant. You can invite them by following these steps:
From the Cog Wheel, select Manage Users.
Go to the Accounting firms tab, and click the Invite button.