So before I can use quick books I have to click not to connect to my bank. Then click the AI stupid thing. Then click add about borrowing money. How do I stop this.

Thanks for joining us here, paul14.

I can see that a similar question about stopping ads for a loan-related feature was also asked earlier in a separate thread. Let me route you to it so you can read the response from on the members of the forum. 

Here's the link: https://quickbooks.intuit.com/learn-support/en-us/other-questions/re-how-to-stop-adds-i-am-debt-free-and-do-not-need-to-borrow/01/1556989#M180209

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