Quickbooks Desktop Constantly Aborts

For a LONG time now QuickBooks constantly aborts on me. We have 3 users working from a “server” (not a real server but a separate dedicated computer, so the host is on that machine), but I’m the only one this is happening to. It’s literally constant, some days once, other days ukp to 5 or 6 times and constantly interrupting my work flow. Sometimes all I have to do is switch windows. Sometimes I go outside of QB (to the web or a document on my computer) and when I switch back it aborts. It’s happening in every aspect of QB - entering vendor bills, payroll transactions and running reports, It happens when looking at customers or vendors, or lists of all kinds -- right in front of me it aborts and I’m not even touching the keyboard, just looking at the screen.

I’m hearing rumors that QB is making this happen intentionally. We all know Intuit is doing everything it can to force users to go online. I do not want to go online and I’ve had to fight every year to get my desktop version renewed. I’m tired Intuit’s attitude about this. If this is intentional it’s underhanded and disgusting. My accountant thinks this is exactly what’s happening ( so does my IT tech) and she suggests finding another program, which I’m more than happy to do.

Any suggestions?